Donotcompareyourselftoothers

Realize you don’t need others’ approval

    As long as you do what makes you happy, you don’t need other people to condone your actions.
This will free you to act on what you believe, which will instill confidence into your every act.  

坚持下去的理由Reason to Keep Going 　　Just because life has let you down, it doesn’t mean that you must let yourself down.
Pick yourself up, quickly take a positive step, and know that you are closer to reaching your goal than you have ever been before.
生活让你感到失望了,但这并不意味着你一定要让自己感到失望。站起来,快速踏出积极的一步。要知道你现在距离你的目标比之前更近了。
You have already been through some of the hard part and experienced some of the difficulty that you have to go through.
So keep going, and make that experience count.
你已经通过了一些艰难险阻,也体验过了一些必然要经历的困苦,所以,坚持下去,让这些经历变得有价值。
Change your approach if that is what is called for.
Learn from where you have been, adapt and adjust your efforts to be even more effective.
如果需要,请改变方法。从过去吸取教训,适应、调整让你的付出更加物有所值。
Every day, every encounter1 and every outcome is a new opportunity to move yourself forward.
duanwenw.com Keep focusing on the goal you have chosen, and keep moving in the best way that you know.
每一天、每一份阅历、每一次结果都是你进步的新契机。坚持你选定的目标,并通过最有效的途径朝它前进。
Disappointments are just as much a part of the process as victories.
Be truly thankful for it all, and in your gratitude you will find a way to put it all to positive use.
失望,正如成功一样,是奋斗过程中的一部分。对你所有的经历充满感激,你会从中发现莫大的益处。
Whatever has happened is a perfect reason to keep going.
Keep going, and create the life you have chosen to live.
发生过的一切事情都是坚持下去的极好的理由。坚持下去,创造自己选择的生活。
给自己的礼物Gifts That You Give Yourself 　　Are you burdened  by your conesquences, or is your life blessed by the consequences you create? That depends entirely on the choices you make.
你在为自己酿的苦果所累吗？还是在自己创造的结果中享受幸福的生活？这完全取决于你自己的选择。
It may seem at times that the consequences are there to punish you.
Actually, they are there as a manifestation of your thoughts, your actions and your attitude.
有时候,结果好像是用来惩罚你的。实际上,它们是你的思想、行为和态度的见证。
You cannot change the consequences that flow from specific actions.
However, you can indeed change the actions you choose to take, and, by so doing, you can decide what consequences you create.
你不能改变某些特定行为带来的结果。然而,你可以选择改变你的行为。这样,你就能决定制造怎样的结果。
Consequences are gifts that you give to yourself, created by the choices you make.
If you don’t like the consequences you have been getting, that is a clear message that you are sending yourself.
各种结果都是你给予自己的礼物,它们都是因你的选择而发生的。如果你不喜欢现在的结果,那么你正在向自己传达某个信息。
Positive and meaningful thoughts and actions bring desirable conesquences.
As reliably as day follows night, the way you live creates the life you experience.
积极而有意义的思想和行为可以带来理想的结果。你的生活方式带来了你所经历的生活,这就如同白天在黑夜过后出现一样确定。
Take control of your consequences by putting positive intention into your choices.
Make use of the power you have, and you can go wherever you choose.
做出积极而明确的选择,这样你就可以掌控结果。发挥自己的力量,你可以到达任何想去的地方。
Goals Only Work When You Do 　　People often make resolutions at the beginning of the New Year.
They work hard at them for a few weeks, maybe even a few months, and then forget about them.
The next year, they make the same New Year’s resolutions.
Why?
新年开始,人们总少不了要制定目标。人们为此颇动了一番脑筋,耗时几个星期,甚至可能几个月,可随后就忘个精光。第二年他们又如法炮制了同样的目标。这是为什么呢？或许他们设定的目标太不合实际了,然而,这并不是说,他们的目标就不值得一提。而是要将这些目标细致化、具体化,也不能太理想化。
They may be making goals that are too unrealistic1.
That is not to say that they are not worthy goals.
They need to be broken into smaller, more specific, and more attainable pieces.
You probably know the joke.
How do you eat an elephant? One spoonful at a time.
It is the same with goals.
Make spoon-size goals and achieve them easily.
When you’ve mastered this, get a bigger spoon!
你大概听过这个笑话吧。怎样才能吞食一头大象呢？当然是一次吃一口了。设定目标也是这样。目标设小一些,就容易实现。当你掌握了小的目标,再来设大点的目标吧！
You may have filled your timetable with so many things that there is little room for your goals to grow.
duanwenw.comBe careful about how you use your time and what you focus on.
Success often comes when you know what to leave out, rather than what to include in your life.
Notice, too, how much time you spend on small things.
Have you ever just "had" to clean your office before you could begin your project? Then you know how this works!
也许你的时间表早已排满,无法再实现新的目标了。那么,你可得留心时间的使用和计划的重点了。成功的诀窍在于懂得一生中你该放弃什么,而不是该纳入什么。切忌让鸡毛蒜皮的琐事耗费了你的时间。在实施你的目标之前,你是否曾经"必须"去清理你的办公室呢？那么,你熟谙此道了！
Goal setting is like the pig and the chicken who went out for a walk in the town.
The chicken became excited when she saw a sign that said "Pork & Eggs, $2.99".
She said to the pig, "We’ve got double billing again."
The pig said, "For you, it’s all in a day’s work.
For me, it’s total commitment2."
Goal setting is all in a day’s work.
Goal achievement is total commitment.
设定目标有如结伴到镇上转悠的猪和鸡。鸡瞧见写着"猪肉和鸡蛋,2.99美元"的招牌时激动不已,她对猪说:"我们的身价又涨了一倍呢！"猪说:"下几个蛋对你来说只是一天的功夫；而这肉对于我,可是全身心地投入啊。"
设定目标只是一天的功夫,而实现目标就需要全身心地投入了。