一念之间

慈容法师在台北民权东路普门寺做住持时，有一天晚上，一个高头大马的男士神色怪异地跑到普门寺里，在走廊上大喊大叫：“我要杀人！我要杀人！”大家听他这么一喊都不敢上前去。
这时，慈容法师静静地走到他面前：“你要杀什么人？”他说：“我倾家荡产了，我所有的钱财都给朋友骗了。
我要去杀他，以消心头之恨。
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慈容法师请他到客厅里坐，慢慢跟他谈，劝他不要太过冲动：“杀人不能解决问题，况且是犯法的。
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慢慢地谈了很久以后，这男士竟然说：“不然我自杀，我对不起老婆，对不起家人，对不起朋友，我实在无颜面对他们，我活不下去了！”

慈容法师过去在日本专修社会福祉，懂得心理学。

于是耐心地劝慰他：“自杀也不能解决问题，留下妻子儿女怎么办呢？朋友不更为你伤心、难过嘛？要负起责任，勇敢面对现实……”

男子泄气地说：“不能杀人又不能自杀，那你收我为弟子好了，出家后便一了百了。
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慈容法师说：“这样好，你把名字、住址、职业、电话照实写下来。
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慈容法师立刻请人打电话给他太太，他的太太一得到消息，赶紧坐出租车赶来。
两人一见面就是抱头痛哭，原以为太太会看不起他，但现在他觉得太太还是很爱他，于是，在慈容法师劝慰下，两人平平静静地回家去了。

两年后，两夫妻买了好多礼物送给慈容法师，感谢他当初的帮助：“师父！感谢你，让我有勇气再创业，你不但救了我一个人的命，也救了我的全家。
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慈容法师就说：“一念之间，是很要紧的。
天堂地狱都在一念之间，成功失败也在一念之间，凡事不往坏处想，往好处想，就会有办法解决问题的。
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人生难免会有山穷水尽时，自己一人只会胡思乱想，钻到死胡同里。
这时一定要找信任的人谈谈、说说，为自己开出心情的出口，从中得到启发。

更积极的态度是平时养成的，时时灌输好的、善的、正面的、乐观的观念，做自己的主人，让眼耳鼻身心都听自己的话，一旦困境来扰，就有坚韧的武器与敌人作战，而不会轻易被打倒了！

Introduce:Kind look rabbi is in Taipei civil rights east when temple of road general door does abbot, one day in the evening, the man expression of old horse of a tall head runs barpquely in general door temple, in the shout on corridor: "I should commit murder! I should commit murder! " everybody listens to him so before crying to dare not go up, go.
At this moment, kind look rabbi goes to him silently before: "What person should you kill? " he says: "I lost a family fortune, I all gold were cheated to the friend.
I should kill him, the hate with disappear mind.
" Ci Rong rabbi asks him to sit in the sitting room, talk with him slowly, persuade him not to want too too actuation: "Homicide is insoluble problem, besides sins.
" talked slowly very long later, this man says actually: "Otherwise I commit suicide, I I am sorry wife, I am sorry family, I am sorry friend, I am opposite without face really they, I did not go down alive! " Ci Rong rabbi specialized in social happiness and benefit in Japan in the past, know psychology.
Then patient ground consoles he: "The suicide is insoluble also problem, leave wife children how to do? Friend not more are you sad, sad? Want to bear a responsibility, face actual …… bravely " the man says disappointingly: "Cannot commit murder to cannot commit suicide again, it is good for child that then you receive me, after becoming a monk or nun All troubles end when the main trouble ends.
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" Ci Rong rabbi says: "So good, you take name, address, profession, telephone call solid write down.
" Ci Rong rabbi asks a person to phone his wife immediately, his madam gets an information, rapidly by taxi the car comes.
Two people meet is cry on each other's shoulder, think the madam can look down on him formerly, but he feels the madam still loves him very much now, then, in Ci Rong rabbi consoles below, two people come home silently flatly.
After two years, two husband and wife bought a lot of gift to send Ci Rong rabbi, thank him at the outset help: "Master! Thank you, let me courage does poineering work again, you not only the life that saved my person, also helped my family.
" Ci Rong rabbi says: "Read aloud between, it is very essential.
Heaven hell is reading aloud between, successful failure also is reading aloud between, everything does not think toward disadvantage, think toward advantage, can method solves a problem.
" when life hard to avoid can have at the end of one's resources, oneself one person is met only cranky, get in blind lane.
The person that must seek credit at this moment talks, say, open the outlet that gives the tune for oneself, get instructive from which.
More positive attitude is at ordinary times of nurturance, had engrafted constantly, of be apt to, of the front, hopeful idea, do oneself host, let eye ear nose body and mind hear his word, once predicament comes faze, tough weapon and enemy fight, and won't be Koed easily! 8985