Acceptwhatcan’tbechanged

Take time to listen

    The happiest person doesn’t interrupt because she knows that if she wants to be heard, she has to listen to others.
By listening instead of waiting to speak, you can understand what motivates others, which can help you build rapport with them and understand yourself.  

你做到了You Achieve 　　不一样的态度产生了不一样的结果,从而造就了不同的人生。很多时候人们都期望生活能发生更好的变化。当我们开始改变自己的态度时,这种变化就会发生。
Every day, you are achieving some-thing.
With every moment, every action, every word, gesture, thought and feeling, you exert influence on your world.
每一天你都在完成一些事。每时每刻,你都在用你的一言一行、所思所感影响着你的世界。
Everything you do is an achievement of some kind.
The question is, where are those achievements taking you?
你做的每件事都是一种成就。问题是,这些成就会将你带到何种境地？
Are your constant achievements bringing you closer to the life you ultimately desire to live, or are they holding you back? Are your achievements satisfying and fulfilling, or are they just getting you through the day and passing the time?
这些接连不断的成就是让你更加接近你渴望最终过上的生活呢,还是让你畏缩不前？你的成就是令人满意的呢,还是只为帮你混沌度日、消磨光阴？
With your attitude, your focus and your actions, you can choose your achieve ments.duanwenw.com  And by choosing your achievements, you are choosing the kind of life that you experience.
你要完成什么样的成就,你的态度、注意力和行动都能帮你选择。选择这些成就的同时,你也就选择了你要过的生活。
Because you are so skilled at achieving, you have a great opportunity available right now.
Allow yourself to dream, and know that your abilities can enable you to reach that dream if you choose.
因为你善于成就一些事,所以现在有一个绝好的机会展现在你面前。让自己敢于梦想,要知道,如果你选择这样做,你的能力终将助你实现这个梦想。
You are constantly achieving, so point those achievements in a meaningful direction.
You achieve, so use those achievements to make your life the very best it can be.
你一直在成就些什么,那么,让这些成就朝一个有意义的方向展开吧。你做到了,就用这些成就帮你造就最好的生活吧。
固守自己的优势 　　You were born with a special talent.
It may be to sing, write, teach, paint, mentor, preach, defend or befriend.
You have something special to offer the world, something you can do better than 10,000 others.
You must keep learning and trying new things to find your special talent.
The world needs your gift.
Be aware that even a special talent can go stale if you don’t keep using and honing it.
Endeavor to keep your talents and all your skills up to date.
你生而有自己的特殊天赋。你的特长可能是唱歌，写作，教书，绘画，劝导，步道，辩护或交友。你总有些特殊之处可以贡献给这个世界，有些事你可以做的比另外一万个人做的都好。你必须不断学习和尝试新的事物从而发现自己的特殊才能。时间需要你的贡献馈赠。要明白即使是特殊才能如果不经常使用而且磨练的话也会失效。因此要尽力使自己的天赋与所有的技能跟上时代。
An advantage isn’t an advantage unless you use it.
Find ways to use your advantages to set and reach your goals.
Likewise, you should recognize and then try to minimize the impact of your limitations.
Remember that not all advantages are transferable.
Just because you are talented in one area doesn’t mean that you will be talented at everything you try.
The successful real estate investor can easily lose her money opening a restaurant.
Stick to your advantages and don’t stray from them without reasoned justification.
任何优势如果不用的话也就不称其为优势了。找到办法运用你的优势来确定并实现你的目标。同样的你应该意识到自己的不足之处并尽力将其不利影响限制在最小程度。切记并不是所有的优势都能够相互转换的：你在某一方面有天赋并不意味着你在自己所尝试的一切事情上都有天赋。一个成功的房地产投资商很可能因为开餐馆而亏本。因此要固守自己的优势，在没有理性的确定判断之前不要轻易离开自己擅长的领域。
y and restrictions, rules to follow from which we can grow and gain strength.
Restraint is a necessary counterpart to the winds of opposition.
Some of us tug at the rules so hard that we never soar to reach the heights we might have obtained.
We keep part of the commandment and never rise enough to get our tails off the ground.
有时我们真像这风筝啊！上苍赋予我们困境和约束，赋予我们成长和增强实力所要遵从的规则。约束是逆风的必要匹配物。我们中有些人是如此强硬地抵制规则，以至我们从来无法飞到本来能够达到的高度。我们只遵从部分戒律，因此永远不会飞得足够高，使尾巴远离地面。
Let us each rise to the great heights, recognizing that some of the restraints that we may chafe under are actually the steadying force that helps us ascend and achieve.
让我们每个人都飞到高处吧，并且认识到这一点：有些可能会令我们生气的约束，实际上是帮助我们攀升和实现愿望的平衡力
去做才是成功之母 　　You have to make the call you’re afraid to make.
你要打电话，即使心里很怕。
You have to get up earlier than you want to get up.
你要比自己预想的起得更早。
You have to fight when you are already injured, bloody, and sore.
当你受伤、流血、疼痛时要反击。
You have to lead when no one else is following you yet.
没人愿意听你命令时，你要当领导。
You have to invest in yourself even though no one else is.
即使没人愿意投资你，你也要投资自己。
You have to look like a fool while you’re looking for answers you don’t have.
当你寻求答案时，看起来笨一点没什么。
You have to deliver results when making excuses is an option.
能找借口时，你也要给出结果。
You have to search for your own explanations even when you’re told to accept the “facts.”
即使你被告知要接受事实，也要自己找原因。
You have to make mistakes and look like an idiot.
你要像个傻瓜一样犯错。
You have to try and fail and try again.
你必须不断失败不断尝试。
You have to run faster even though you’re out of breath.
即使喘不上气，你也要尽力跑的快一些。
You have to be kind to people who have been cruel to you.
你要对那些对你残忍的人善良。
You have to meet deadlines that are unreasonable and deliver results that are unparalleled.
你要在不合理的最后期限前把事情做好，并做的很出色。
You have to be accountable for your actions even when things go wrong.
即使事情出错，你也要对自己的行为负责。
You have to keep moving towards where you want to be no matter what’s in front of you.
你要向目标迈进，不管横在你面前的是什么。
You have to do the hard things.
The things that no one else is doing.
The things that scare you.The things that make you wonder how much longer you can hold on.
你必须做困难的事情。没人做的事情。你害怕的事情。让你知道自己能坚持多久的事情。
Those are the things that define you.
Those are the things that make the difference between living a life of mediocrity or outrageous success.
这些事能塑造你。它们能让生活有平庸和成功的天壤之别。
The hard things are the easiest things to avoid.
To excuse away.
To pretend like they don’t apply to you.
困难的事情最容易让我们逃避、找借口不做、假装看不见。
The simple truth about how ordinary people accomplish outrageous feats of success is that they do the hard things that smarter, wealthier, more qualified people don’t have the courage to do.
普通人获得成功很简单，他们做困难的事情，这些事是那些更聪明、更富有、更称职的人没勇气做的。
Do the hard things.
You might be surprised at how amazing you really are.
做困难的事情吧。你可能会惊讶自己有多了不起。